Wednesday, October 20, 2010
8:51 PM
Whining and inappropriate behaviour, some of the biggest banes of my existence
I don't get it with girls who whine a lot, especially to their boyfriends. Really!
There was this one time I was at West Mall MacDonald's after school, and I saw this secondary
school girl sitting in front of me, clinging to her boyfriend (whom I think is about her age, if not at least a year older), and whining non-stop about something.
Honestly, it's very childish and distasteful. How he put up with it is way beyond me. If I were him, I'd have put my foot down and told her to shut her trap instantly! It's so irritating to hear people whine non-stop, especially if it's over trivial issues. If it's major stuff like schoolwork stress, I guess it's not that bad, because even I'm guilty of whining when things get stressful. But it's the incessant whining that got to me big time.
I really, really hate it when people whine so much over minor issues. Can't you just put your head down, suck it up and bear with it?! Surely, it can't be that difficult to get into action to make things better for yourself.
It's true indeed, that being proactive is better than being reactive.Whenever I'm outside and see a girl behaving in such a manner, especially towards her boyfriend, I'd always tell myself that I'd never, ever whine to my future boyfriend. To be really frank, I don't see what's nice about a girl continually whining. It wouldn't kill you to have some backbone and guts, and just be able to stand on your own feet!
Another thing that really gets my goat big time, is seeing people who're so well-dressed, nicely made up and all, behave in an uncouth manner, ie. laughing so loudly in public. We're all bound to have moments when we laugh loudly, especially when something really funny happens. But something that happened recently made me feel annoyed, and I'd never ever do such a thing in public. It's so inappropriate!